In our Social life, we come up to meet so many people. Some might make a good impression on us; some may not. Even small misunderstandings leads to hatred. We can sense even the subtle signs of hatred from someone. But, it will be heart breaking if our loved ones hates us. There are some tricks to Impress someone who hates you the most.
1.Find the Reason Why they Hate You
No one hates anyone for no reason at all. There will be a reason behind everything. So, find the reason behind their hatred. Asking them the reason for their hatred might straighten things out. Thinking only about their behavior towards you without understanding the reason behind their hatred leads you to anxiety and stress. Get into the backstage and analyze what really happened.
2. Are you Sure they Really Hate You
You have to be sure whether they really hate you. We are not good at judging things. We analyze things what happens right in front of us. We really don't see what that person is going through. There are some ways to make sure whether they really hate you or not.
- If they change the Subject of the conversation often.
- If they ignore you while talking to the rest of your Colleagues.
- If they Insult you Publicly.
If your haters are not total jerks, and the reason behind their hatred are genuine, you can make them like you by following some steps. For Starters, begin by asking their help. When you hate someone, you label them with some self assumptions, like, he is Mean, Rude and Selfish.
If that person thinks the same about you, by asking a helping hand, it makes them to change their previous hatred related opinions towards you to something better like, "he is not really that mean". It's your cue to make them like you.
4. Talk Gently
Talk to your hater politely and gently. Don't freak out or show your anger for not understanding your situation. When we see someone smile and talk politely, our brains simulate the same action. A specialized set of neurons, called mirror neurons, are responsible for this process. Your actions and behavior towards your hater impact them and makes them mirror your attitude of politeness.
5. Make the First Move
Your hater might have so many reasons to hate you, but give them one reason not to.
If you know someone close to you hates you, and you want to win them back, you should make the first move. Don't let your Ego ruin your Relationship with that person. Showing small gestures improves the chances of liking you. Don't expect for an immediate response and your patience is the key to make them like you.
Don't waste your time and energy on People who drains you and shows you dis-respect. First, think if they are worth it if you have them in your life. People hates you most of the time, don't give attention to that. Do your thing. Right people will find you.
Learn to move on from negative people. They are not worth your time. They will represent their dominance by making your feel inferior through showing their hatred in public. Get rid of them from your life. Trying to make them like you will make you a slave to those jerks. So, before you start to Impress Someone who hates you, makes sure that person is worth it.
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