Love finds everyone even if you try to hide in every nook and corner. Nowadays, it's hard to find a perfect partner. It might seem he/she is the one. But sometimes we make mistakes. If you think he/she is the one for you. Then, you should absolutely avoid these things when you are not or around your partner.
1.Stop Judging
This is the topmost priority you should consider avoiding at all costs. We are hardwired to judge all the actions of everyone around us. But you can re-frame your judgement in a positive way through 'Reasoning'.
Your partner may have done something that you might not like. Judging them at that time will do no good. Instead, label it with some reason, like they didn't know you like that or not, or they had no other choice at that time, or they forget about what they were doing at time.
Analyzing the fact is totally different from judging. Judging leads you to distress.
2.Don't talk behind their backs
You may have arguments and disagreements with your partner. Those things have two different types of outcomes. One that strengthens the bond between you both and the other leads the relationship to end.
If you complain about your partners behavior and actions to others, then there is a 80% chance that the relationship might end.
Because the person listening to your complaints may not know about your partner as much as you do. The thing you have to keep in mind is that you are putting forth your partners secrets in light to that person.
That person might share your information with others and your partner has a chance to know it which leads to severe outcomes. So whatever arguments or misunderstandings you both face, make sure that it should not go out of the walls.
3.Don't Brag
Everyone has the potential to do amazing and interesting things. But, if you take excessive pride in your doing and brag about it to your partner.
Your deed not only loses its value but it also causes your partner to lose interest in you.
Sharing, receiving applause and having a heart throbbing kiss is totally different from only talking about yourself. Pick your Poison wisely.
4. Don't hesitate to Give up your Attitude
You might sometimes be put to a situation where you have to bend your rules and habits for your partners happiness.
Don't stand your ground at that time. You don't have to change your attitude, but just bend it for a while for your loved one. It really means a lot to them.
If you make room for your partner's preferences now, you will receive their truthful love and affection unconditionally.
5.Don't depend on Expectations
Our common mindset is, if we do a favor to someone we expect the same from that person. But is this mindset helpful in a relationship? Definitely not. I'm not saying you shouldn't expect from your partner at all.
All I'm saying is, keep a backup thought that they may or may not return the favor we expect. Think about 50-50 chance on your expectations.
Don't depend on expectations, instead give your love to your partner with Selfless attitude. You will receive your partner's love with high intensity if you haven't expected what was coming.
Don't let your Ego ruin your relationship. If your ego keeps you from talking to your partner, then you should take responsibility to kill that Ego by talking or apologizing to your partner.
If you are aware of these five things and apply it in your relationship. You are the happiest person ever.
Love and Peace are always within you. You can only feel that by showing it to others.
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